Boundaries with friends … written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
Boundaries with friends … written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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With real friends we should not have any boundaries when it comes about any kind of discussions.
When you feel those boundaries exist ... then you are not close enough with those.
Sometimes we need people in our life ... that pays attention to the things we cant see precisely.
Letting us know ... will help be better us.
Is not that we should live a life .. when we all the time expect others to tell us what is going on, but keep in mind of their remarks.
Boundaries are ok, when it comes to friends, but the biggest challenge is when it comes to the loved person.
If you are in a relationship, where different subjects are difficult to discuss, even if you tryed before, with no results at all, maybe you should define togheter the concept of boundaries .... and if you want togheter an absolute relashionship ... or a relationship with certain boundaries.
So many people have a pin on their phone.
Its ok to have a pin in case you loose your phone, but letting the partner know the pin, makes them understand you dont hide anything at all.
You can let them see everything from social media, including messages, but cant give then the password ... how can this idea be defined?!
Sometimes in life, we need a partner, just because it’s very difficult to be alone.
Jumping from this idea to the fact that you was not lucky enough to feel absolute connection with that person ... will let the boundaries exist.
Its really ok, in both scenarios.
You can have no boundaries at all ... but you can also live into a love story without letting them absolutelly everything about you.
We are complex creatures ... and have the right to keep intact all our inside personalities.
You can be a great lawyer, a wonderful husband, but meanwhile ... just from time to time ... write your philosophical ideas about the illusion of life and publish them on social media under another name.
You have the right not to mix those things with your friends, but also with the loved person.
Everything is just a decision of how you want to live your life.
Defining the boundaries or the idea of living without them is just a choice.
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